How to know He/she is in love with you

Before you can know somebody is in love with you, You must first understand what is meant by LOVE? …

If you don’t understand what LOVE is yourself, how will you be able to interpret somebody’s actions and doings as Love? The problem with our present youth is, WE DELVE INTO THINGS WE DON’T UNDERSTAND AND WE END UP BLAMING THE DEVIL

The first person to be convinced by the word love is you who want to be loved

How do you see love? What actions do you classify as Love? How do you Love yourself?

The Bible tells us to love our neighbors as ourselves

And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as [you do] yourself. Matthew 22:39 Amplified Bible.

So you see? If you need love and want to understand love, it’s based on you! The reason why our society today is not experiencing love is because the people in it don’t know the first person to love is themselves…

What is LOVE?

Now what’s Love?

LOVE IS A VERB AND NOT A NOUN

Which sounds to reasoning logically that, you don’t say you love somebody, but rather you act and portray your love. LOVE IS DOING NOT SAYING. Love is ACTION NOT SPEAKING. No wonder the Bible in 1 John 4:20 said

If anyone says, I love God, and hates (detests, abominates) his brother [in Christ], he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, Whom he has not seen.

So you see? Love is not SPEAKING! IT’S ACTION AND HENCE DOING

So Apostle Paul who wanted us to have a clue and understand the subject of LOVE took a whole chapter to explain it…

The characteristics of love and the evidence of love you must show and she must show

But sadly to say, Today we call sex Love and anyone(lady) who deny us sex that, such a person doesn’t love us…

But truly to say, He or she who denied you that sex is he or she who love you because she or he understands your bodies are the temple of the HOLY SPIRIT… But the devil has made it in such a way that, we won’t cling to ladies or guy like that but will move with those who will grant us our fleshly desires… God have mercy on us…

Now back to the characteristics of Love… Apostle Paul started by given us insight into what love means… Let’s read it…

Amplified Bible. 1 Corinthians 13:1-8

IF I [can] speak in the tongues of men and [even] of angels, but have not love (that reasoning, intentional, spiritual devotion such as is inspired by God’s love for and in us), I am only a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.

And if I have prophetic powers (the gift of interpreting the divine will and purpose), and understand all the secret truths and mysteries and possess all knowledge, and if I have [sufficient] faith so that I can remove mountains, but have not love (God’s love in me) I am nothing (a useless nobody).

Even if I dole out all that I have [to the poor in providing] food, and if I surrender my body to be burned or in order that I may glory, but have not love (God’s love in me), I gain nothing.

Love endures long and is patient and kind; love never is envious nor boils over with jealousy, is not boastful or vainglorious, does not display itself haughtily.

It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude (unmannerly) and does not act unbecomingly. Love (God’s love in us) does not insist on its own rights or its own way, for it is not self-seeking; it is not touchy or fretful or resentful; it takes no account of the evil done to it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong].

It does not rejoice at injustice and unrighteousness, but rejoices when right and truth prevail.

Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person, its hopes are fadeless under all circumstances, and it endures everything [without weakening].

Love never fails [never fades out or becomes obsolete or comes to an end]. As for prophecy (the gift of interpreting the divine will and purpose), it will be fulfilled and pass away; as for tongues, they will be destroyed and cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away [it will lose its value and be superseded by truth].

So you see? He or she giving you sex doesn’t mean he/she loves you. Love is a character. Untill you see that character in yourself and in him, don’t classify it as Love, it’s LUST and DEVILSH…